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Ruby has been there not only me but my entire family. She will support you and guide you through whatever obstacles you are going through in your life. 

Allyson 2016

The growth I received from the intensive through the groups allowed me to see my life more quickly. I have skills I can take with me

Val May 2016

You're beautiful, intelligent, and absolutely fabulous! And so compassionate -- and you really bring clarity into situations.  

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Valerie October 2016

Ruby was so engaging that our staff felt safe to really get into some very meaningful discussions with her.

April Starr, Big Brothers Big Sisters May 2016

It was a great experience of growth.

Ken May 2016


Association of Black Sexologists and Clinicians Panel Presentation 

Ruby & dear colleagues:

I am so thankful for the opportunity to be part of something so powerful and uplifting. I appreciated all the conversation, exchange and learning as a result. I hope to continue to engage with all of you as we move forward in our respective journeys.

Best wishes & blessings,
Mariotta Gary-Smith

Thank you, Ruby, for putting together this amazing panel! I'm so glad you asked me to participate. I think it was especially important that you got everyone in the room involved in our discussion.


This entire conference has been wonderful and very enlightening. The conversations and viewpoints I got to hear will definitely impact on my work and my personal life.


It was a pleasure to meet every one of you

Susan Wright


A warm and heartfelt thank you to all of you for your time and contribution to our community to have a different kind of conversation around social justice and sensitive issues.  All of you were absolutely magnificent and I can't say enough about how powerful it was for you share and listen.  Let's stay in touch so that we can continue this work.

James Wadley

This was a home run.  The format of having a moderator lead discussion helped a lot and guided the conversation in a very productive manner.  I liked how frank and passionate the audience and panel members were. You could tel that everyone in the room had a genuine concern and desire for positive results.  Great panel! 

My personal experience is something I will carry with me for a lifetime.  I enjoyed meeting each of you and am very excited about the future of these conversations. I am open to being a part of this again, as is REF.  

Thank you all for your wisdom, your passion, and your thoughtfulness.

Billy Holder

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