

Infidelity and the Machiavellian: A Therapist's Tale
Originally posted in Huffington Post on October 6, 2016 After finances and communication, the third most challenging problem for a...


Therapist Reflection: Polyamory and Practice
Talia scheduled an appointment to determine “what is needed to help her decide if she can be in an open relationship?” I asked Talia...

My Interview on Black Sexuality
Recently, I was interviewed by Dr. Tamara Griffin with Our Sexuality! Magazine. Here is an excerpt from the article speaking on my view...


Healing Conversations On Racism
Healing Conversations About Racism It’s 12:39 a.m. and I was awaken by a disturbing dream. I recognize that there are possible...


Good At Poly?
“Inviting others in is the practice of accepting the discomfort of fear.” -Ruby Johnson The Myth What does “good at poly” mean? I hear...

Did I tell you I am writing a workbook?
Inviting In, Accepting To© is a workbook for those persons who are considering inviting other emotional, mental, or physical...


Oppositional Gaze: The Impostor
Impostor syndrome was originally coined in the article, by Pauline Clance and Suzanne Imes, “The Imposter Phenomenon in High Achieving...


Being Thirsty: Part One
In the Urban dictionary, thirst is the lust or want of someone. Over the last few days, I have had many discussions about sexuality,...


Powerlessness
What does power mean? If I have no power, how am I responsible for my decisions? As an addiction professional, I have heard these...